Me:Hey
Today at 10:00 AM
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Jenny:What?
Today at 10:15 AM
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Me:It would be nice to talk.
Me:How are you?
Today at 10:16 AM
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Jenny:I'm not doing this.
Today at 10:18 AM
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Me:Doing what?
Me:Being friendly?
Today at 10:20 AM
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Jenny:Yes. I'm done. All of it. Friendly not friendly anything.
Today at 10:21 AM
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Me:I mean...we kind of -have- to talk.
Today at 10:21 AM
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Jenny:Lol. No "we" don't.
Today at 10:22 AM
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Me:Oh, so it's like that?
Me:Wtf did I do to you?
Today at 10:22 AM
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Jenny:I dont really think I need to answer that.
Today at 10:24 AM
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Me:The last time we spoke, we had a disagreement. An argument
Me:So....?
Me:I wasn't even that big of a dick. I just said "you're stupid sometimes"
Me:You can't handle a disagreement? It happens.
Today at 10:24 AM
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Jenny:I'm done with it bradely. Period. I dont care about any of it.
Today at 10:25 AM
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Me:What are you even talking about?
Today at 10:25 AM
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Jenny:You. And anything that pertains to you.
Today at 10:26 AM
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Me:What is your problem
Me:Why are you being so hateful
Today at 10:26 AM
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Jenny:I'm not. This is what being done is..
Today at 10:27 AM
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Me:We have a child, genius.
Me:I haven't even done anything to you.
Me:I haven't been mean or nasty to you or anything.
Today at 10:27 AM
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Jenny:No. I have a child.. you have a responsibility that you have neglected
Today at 10:28 AM
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Me:Yea well. We don't see eye to eye on that.
Today at 10:28 AM
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Jenny:Of course not. Lol
Today at 10:28 AM
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Me:So because I disagree with you -- it's your idea to just ignore me and not associate with me? That's mature.
Today at 10:29 AM
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Jenny:Anyway.. No no this ain't even gonna continue.
Today at 10:29 AM
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Me:No no.
Me:Just be nice. Damn it ain't that hard.
Me:I thought I was the one that was supposed to be full of hate and mean and all this.
Today at 10:29 AM
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Jenny:It's not about being nice or mean. Its being done.
Today at 10:30 AM
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Me:Oh so I can't see Rilynn?
Me:Since you're "done"
Today at 10:30 AM
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Jenny:I tell you what. You wanna see rilynn? Do like your suppose to and take care of him or fuck off? It's that simple.
Today at 10:30 AM
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Me:I can't..
Me:You're "done" -- remember?
Today at 10:31 AM
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Jenny:I am as long as you continue this way.
Today at 10:31 AM
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Me:Which way is that?
Me:Respectfully approaching you? That way?
Today at 10:31 AM
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Jenny:Take care him. Own up to the fact that you have a responsibility and you ARE obligated to do so or you can really just go away. And it won't be any hardfeelings with me.
Today at 10:32 AM
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Me:Never said I wasn't obligated.
Today at 10:32 AM
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Jenny:Your actions say otherwise. You have 2 kids you dont take care of either. Your reputAtion proceeds you.
Today at 10:33 AM
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Me:Doesn't change the fact that I love them.
Me:That's your opinion.
Me:Are you trying to tell me how you feel? Or how Rilynn or Kasen potentially feel?
Me:It ain't about you or how you view me or what you think of me
Today at 10:34 AM
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Jenny:It ain't about me. You will have to square with that someday. Looking your children in the fAce and telling them why you wasn't there. And I dare you tosay it was Sarah or me. Lol
Today at 10:35 AM
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Me:Um, that'll be pretty easy.
Me:And I'd never say Sarah. She's actually planning a trip soon.
Me:You, on the other hand, have explicitly kept Rilynn from me.
Today at 10:35 AM
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Jenny:I dont care what you tell either one of them. Cause you and I both know the truth.
Today at 10:36 AM
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Me:Well the thing is...I don't have to twist the truth.
Me:The truth is -- I was a shitty husband/boyfriend/whatever to you. We broke up. And from the time we broke up until now, you haven't really attempted to facilitate me seeing Rilynn with the exception of one tim.
time*
Me:And by facilitate...I mean "Hey, can I see Rilynn today" -- "oh, i'm busy. another time maybe"
Me:I don't mean bringing him to me.
Me:How many months did that go on when I was right down the road?
Me:So don't act innocent.
Today at 10:37 AM
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Jenny:I don't have to. I have told you many times I was willing to work with you as long as you are doing your part. And doing you r part doesn't mean once a fucking month or when it's good for you. It's a all the time deal.
Today at 10:38 AM
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Me:Pretty sure I wanted to see him every day.
Me:Pretty sure I asked...every..day.
Me:Pretty sure I told you I'd give you money or buy whatever he needed. For monnnnthhhsss
Today at 10:39 AM
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Jenny:Yet and still while not taking care of him.
Today at 10:39 AM
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Me:Lol
Me:Dude I had like 3 grand when we broke up
Me:I told you I'd meet you and give you money or buy him shit...
Me:I just wanted to see him. I did try. You refused. And now here we are.
Me:I did try. You refused.
Me:And now here we are.
Today at 10:39 AM
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Jenny:Anyway I'm not arguing with you.
Today at 10:40 AM
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Me:Because I'm right.
Me:And THAT'S the truth
Me:But guess what? Idgaf about telling him "the truth"
Me:Cause it won't do anything but confuse him
Me:The fact of the matter is -- I love my son. I want to see my son. I would LOVE to see my son every day. I would love to buy him things. I would love to do all this
Me:But I CANT as long as you're acting this way towards me.
Today at 10:40 AM
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Jenny:Okay.
Today at 10:41 AM
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Me:I don't give a shit about making you look like a bad guy. You're a good mom. He loves you. You love him.
Me:I don't want to confuse him and upset him and make him wonder things like I did when I was a kid
Me:I just wanna be a good dad to him.
Me:I really mean that.
Me:We have to get along in order for that to work.
Me:And I understand your position. I really do.
Me:It's tough doing it by yourself.
Me:I don't want you to have to do that. And I don't want anything from you. Nothing. I'm not asking you for anything other than a chance.
Today at 10:43 AM
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Jenny:You'd know huh?? Looool
Today at 10:43 AM
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Me:See that's what I'm talking about
Today at 10:43 AM
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Jenny:The only thing that is going to change my view on you is time and effort.
Today at 10:44 AM
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Me:So then stop being a dick?
Me:But like I said -- your view of me doesn't mean shit. It means absolutely nothing.
Me:It's..not..about..you.
Today at 10:44 AM
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Jenny:Okay.
Today at 10:46 AM
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Me:The ONLY thing that really matters about what you think is whether or not I'm a clear and obvious threat to Rilynn's safety.
Me:I don't give a total shit about what you think of me.
Me:And if you want to base that off of your decision to let me see him, well, then you're retarded.
Today at 10:46 AM
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Jenny:That's fine. You dont have to.
Jenny:Anyway. I've gotta go.
Today at 10:47 AM